I don't send food back at restaurants. Even if it's horrible. I was once served a veal piccata that I was pretty sure was rancid. And it was so oversalted that it made the inside of my mouth sting. But I still ate half of it thinking that maybe it would get better or maybe I just didn't know how veal piccata should taste. Then, I finally just gave up and sat there still hungry until the server came over. "Yeah, it's great. Thank you."
I should have sent it back. I should have said, "No. This is, in fact, the worst thing I've ever tasted. I'm sure it's not your fault, but this is awful."
That's what I should have said.
But, instead, I sat on my hands, paid, and tipped the server generously. I'm just not a "Take a stand" guy.
I think it's like that with liberals. I think, way down deep, many of us have been considered freaks our whole lives because of the way we are or the way we think. We have suffered the consequences of not falling in line so many times that it cows us. And we want people to like us, so many of us tend not to make a fuss.
If this is you, I'd like to talk to you.
Let me begin by saying that I know it may be uncomfortable for you. You see all that's going on and it feels overwhelming, but you don't know what to do. So, instead, you just wait. Or, worse yet, you eat that rancid veal piccata and smile. Something inside you makes you doubt yourself. But I'd like you to know that that's not YOUR doubt. Somebody else put that in you and it's not yours. It was handed to you and you had no other choice but to take it for your own survival. Or at least that's what they told you.
I have never called an official's phone in my life to tell them what I want. What I won't stand for. What I need them to do. But I've been using the 5 calls app just to do that. At first, I was disappointed that it wasn't like Resist Bot where you don't actually have to talk to anyone. Resist Bot does it for you. The 5 Calls app means you have to talk to somebody. They even provide a script if you need one.
My first call to Fetterman's office ended with me being on hold for a half our and when it finally clicked over, they seemed to have hung up on me. I was momentarily relieved, actually. But I stuck it out and called again.
"My name is Brian Broome and I...uh...I have some things I want to say. And I uhhh... I need John Fetterman to...uh...listen." I was legitimately rattled.
I went on like that sounding unsure of myself. Like I owed him money and called to tell him that I wasn't going to be able to pay him. That's what I sounded like because that's how they've taught us to think.
But, since then, I have found my voice. I don't need no script. I just need them to know what the fuck they seem to be supporting.
What I need you to know, shy person, is that nobody else is going to do this for you. There is no calvary on the way. And what we're facing now is so dangerous that even I put my insecurities away and made my voice heard.
And I will keep doing so.
If this is you too, I beseech you to swallow hard and make those calls or do something that will make a difference. Be braver than you're used to being or maybe never were.
Your first call will be clunky.
But by the third, fourth, and fifth, you'll realize that all those people who've made you think your voice doesn't matter were dead wrong. Because, again, nobody else can save you right now, but you. If you have children, do it for them. Hell, if you even LIKE children do it for them because this will affect the world they grow up in.
We are in the midst of an authoritarian takeover and no amount of scrolling on your phone is going to help it. And, I get it. You don't know how to make a fuss. But I also remind you that dumb is loud. Dumb is so very fucking loud.
Don't eat what they're trying to serve you.
Send it back.
Writer Brian Boome, Facebook post Feb. 19, 2025